Under the Solano Sun
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Language of Flowers

As winter in California brings its mild chill, the landscape still bursts into life with vibrant flowers, leafy trees, and lush green plants of all kinds. Many of us have taken to our home gardens, nurturing peonies, daylilies, sunflowers, and roses. While we cherish our flowers for their beauty and delightful scents, few of us still use them as a form of secret communication.
Today, we send private messages to our friends and lovers via text, but the Victorians sent nosegays to convey hidden thoughts and desires. Floriography, or the language of flowers, required floral dictionaries but allowed couples to express what society deemed inappropriate to say in words.
Are you planning to add any new plants to your garden this year? Why not think about planting flowers to give away as boutiques with a message.
 
In Shakespeare's time, fennel was a symbol of strength, columbine stood for folly, daisies meant innocence, and violets recognized faithfulness and modesty.
In Japanese culture, Hanakotoba is the language of flowers with its own lexicon. For example, a gift of Havenaria radiata, an orchid native to the region, means “My thoughts will follow you into your dreams.”
Today, we still say “I love you” with roses, “I'm sorry” with a colorful bouquet, or “my condolences” with gladiolas. If you'd like to try to say something more precisely with your blooms this summer, check out the floral glossary below.  If I could, I would send each of you basil.
 
 
Symbolic Meanings of Herbs, Flowers and Trees
Aloe
Healing, protection, affection
Amaryllis
Pride
Anemone
Forsaken
Angelica
Inspiration
Apple blossom
Preference
Arborvitae
Unchanging friendship
Bachelor's button
Single blessedness
Basil
Good wishes
Bay
Glory
Begonia
Beware
Bittersweet
Truth
Black-eyed Susan
Justice
Bluebell
Humility
Candytuft
Indifference
Carnation
Women, Love
– Red carnation
My Heart Aches, admiration
– White carnation
Innocence, pure love, women's good luck gift
– Pink carnation
I'll never forget you
– Yellow carnation
Disappointment, rejection
Chamomile
Patience
Chives
Usefulness
Chrysanthemum
Cheerfulness
Clover, white
Think of me
Coreopsis
Always cheerful
Coriander
Hidden worth
Crocus, spring
Youthful gladness
Cumin
Fidelity
Cyclamen
Resignation and good-bye
Daffodil
Regard
Daisy
Innocence, hope
Dill
Powerful against evil
Edelweiss
Courage, devotion
Fennel
Flattery
Fern
Sincerity
Forget-me-not
True love memories
Gardenia
Secret love
Geranium, oak-leaved
True friendship
Goldenrod
Encouragement
Heliotrope
Eternal love
Holly
Hope
Hollyhock
Ambition
Honeysuckle
Bonds of love
Horehound
Health
Hyacinth
Games and sport, playfulness, rashness
Hyacinth, blue
Constancy of love
Hyacinth, purple
Sorrow, forgiveness, regret
Hyacinth, yellow
Jealousy
Hyacinth, white
Loveliness, prayers for someone
Hyssop
Sacrifice, cleanliness
Iris
A message
Ivy
Friendship, continuity
Jasmine, white
Sweet love
Lady's-mantle
Comforting
Lavender
Devotion, virtue
Lemon balm
Sympathy
Lilac
Joy of youth
Lily, calla
Beauty
Lily, day
Chinese emblem for mother
Lily-of-the-valley
Sweetness
Lotus Flower
Purity, enlightenment, self-regeneration, and rebirth
Magnolia
Love of nature
Marjoram
Joy and happiness
Mint
Virtue
Morning glory
Affection
Myrtle
Good luck and love in a marriage
Nasturtium
Patriotism
Oak
Strength
Oregano
Substance
Pansy
Thoughts
Parsley
Festivity
Peony
Happy life, happy marriage
Pine
Humility
Poppy, red
Consolation
Rhododendron
Danger
Rose, red
Love, I love you, desire
Rose, pink
Happiness
Rose, white
Purity, heavenly, I'm worthy of you
Rose, yellow
Jealousy, decrease of love
Rosemary
Remembrance
Rue
Grace, clear vision
Sage
Wisdom, immortality
Salvia, blue
I think of you
Salvia, red
Forever mine
Savory
Spice, interest
Sorrel
Affection
Southernwood
Constancy, jest
Sunflower
Adoration
Sweet pea
Pleasures
Sweet William
Gallantry
Sweet woodruff
Humility
Tansy
Hostile thoughts
Tarragon
Lasting interest
Thyme
Courage, strength
Tulip, red
Declaration of love
Tulip, yellow
Sunshine in your smile
Valerian
Readiness
Violet
Loyalty, devotion, faithfulness, modesty
Wallflower
Faithfulness in adversity
Willow
Sadness
Yarrow
Everlasting love
Zinnia
Thoughts of absent friends